Everyone knows about second hand smoke, but did you know there was third hand smoke? That's the smoke that gets trapped in carpets and fabric etc. So even if someone's not even smoking, they carry molecules of smoke and chemicals on them. You can tell who's a smoker by their horrible smell, right? I simply can't help thinking smoking is such a selfish thing to do. You hurt your body, everyone else's body too and you don't give a damn. Cigarettes are also very expensive. I just don't get it.
I feel exactly the same way
Does your dog wear any winter clothing as well, like mini-boots for traction on icy roads?
nah he has some socks/booties but he doesnt wear them often
im getting pretty sick of people dictating when i should forgive people
Why don't you like Seattle?
i cant deal with getting no sun ever
Well since we're reminiscing about pmd-e times, what was your favourite pmd-e moment? Mine has to be the slasher story because there was just so much development going on without being overwhelming and it was well executed and very tense or the palette story right at the beginning which almost made me cry.
my favorite maybe was also the slasher story; it was the beginning of riiko writing things, and it got me REALLY into writing more myself (and wanting to read more)
it was also when I had the most ideas about everything, and was so excited about the future
i guess it was the most nostalgic time for me
sorry you guys have to deal with all this nonsense. as an aside to the thing on smarm, ive noticed that smarmy people seem to have this belief that behavior can be unhooked from identity. such as, "well, i know x did all this bad stuff, but hes actually a good guy on the inside, you just have to get to know him!" what a convenient life that must be. you get to act however you like but hey, its OK - its not who you "really are"! where who you "really are" = you around certain people, some times.
yeah uh i don’t know what the hell “good guy” is supposed to mean
people by and large tend to act nicely towards the people they care about most of the time? wow here is your nobel prize in sociology
i am kind of in favor of describing people in terms of what they do rather than what role we imagine they play
also let us stop to consider the subtext of “but he’s a good guy really”, which i think can only go one of two ways really
- he’s a good guy, so for him to have acted this way, there must have been extenuating circumstances. in other words, you were asking for it
- he’s a good guy to me, and i don’t really care about you in the slightest, so fuck you i got mine
take your pick
But, think of the feelings of the abuser, they have strong and profound feelings, too! So much so, in fact, that the feelings of those abused should be casually dismissed, because I'm tired of hearing about those. "Won't someone please think of the abusers."
I just want to say, that when you lose a friend, even if you lost them because they fricked up your life and you had to cut it off, it's still painful, and regardless of whether your blog has a lot of followers or not, I know it still feels better to get your frustrations out in the open, so it's not pk's fault for calling Mike out, understand that it was Mike doing shit things to keep PK frustrated for this long.
i hope i get over it soon because im not happy about being reminded of something he did or hearing about some new fucking thing he did last week or whatever
anyway yeah it was fucking painful and i spent a month angry that i lost a friend because of him being a fucking jackass
was it so hard not to lie??? and then try to get attention??? or make things up??? or be shitty to so many artists?/????